It is easier to pull back the hair in the ponytails and then curl the hair before you do the knots in the hair. I usually use one bobby pin for two of the knotted pieces. Put the headband on before you pull back the front pieces. It will help hold the headband on. A thought, put the head band on then pull back the front hair to the bottom ponytail before you pin it up. That might work better. Anyways- hair done, a little make up if you want- they need their black dance shoes, tight fitted black tank, and then sequin costume ( dress, headband, and bloomers) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U1JohntpnVw. Here is a link if it does to show. Under wedding day hairstyle - three ponytail up do